Are you usually the big spoon or the little spoon? Spooning is a common euphemism sexually and romantically which refers to people physically against each other while laying on their sides close enough it is as if they are nesled together as spoons can be. . According to Dictionary.Com Spooning is a form of cuddling where two people lay on their sides, with one person’s back against the other’s chest. In this position, the two people resemble two spoons nested together in a drawer. It’s sickeningly sweet. Come the 20th century, spooning came to refer to a sexual position where a person has intercourse with a person on their side from the back. For most intimates, though, spooning is more innocuous, a form of chest-to-back cuddling. Dictionary.Com isn’t taking into consideration that more than two people can spoon at once. The writers may have never considered being the middle spoon.
For some, the middle spoon position is the most sought-after position ever. That pertains to both cuddling and sexual play.
This design with three spoons and text that reads “I will be the middle spoon” can be purchased as a T-shirt, hat, sticker, or phone case HERE – I will be the middle spoon by Vixen Games.
I’ve been the long-term middle spoon as a member in a triad as the male with two females. It makes for a warm night when sleep time comes. If you are too hot at night then the middle spoon spot won’t be your favorite for sleeping. It may very well be your favorite spot for sex though. Our ideas of temperature change depending on the activities we are engaged in.
Many people who identify as polyamorous use the term “middle spoon” as a desired statement. It is less used amongst swingers and the like, but is used because of its obviousness. The middle spoon position works well in many lineups. MfM, FFM, FMF, MMF, FFF, and MMM are all doable depending on tastes, desires, and comfort levels. So this shirt design works for many, but Vixen Games is dedicated to Vixen Hotwives.
If you are a swinger or hotwife and do the extra guy thing a woman can be the middle spoon with her husband and an extra partner. Foreplay and going back and forth as the center of attention is the usual. Some women enjoy double penetration. It is not as common as in videos to play out in real life, but it is common enough. Double vaginal penetration is more common in real-life scenarios than one in the vagina and one in the butt. If you are a woman and have never tried either, I can tell you that the reason is almost every woman who tries double vaginal finds it extremely pleasurable and it is easier to do than the other for most women. Also, not every woman likes anal on a regular basis. Just like anal, it takes some prep, but unless something is strange with your vagina two normal-sized penises will easily fit if you have already been having sex for a while and are excited. The vagina is extremely elastic.
Many Stags love watching their wives as much as being involved themselves in such scenarios. Many enjoy watching it more than participating. To watch their wife please and be pleased by two men is extremely erotic for them.
If the stag has a desire to experience his wife freshly after intercourse with another male or males and enjoys the sensation of her being stretched out it is especially exciting to see her be the middle spoon with double vaginal penetration involved. The anticipation is extreme in such scenarios for the Stag. The Vixen too will be extremely excited by the prospect of his reclaiming because she knows how much he will enjoy it. That added excitement will play out during the threesome show she is putting on and enhance her pleasure. It is a win across the board for all involved.
The shirt was designed with those scenarios in mind. A shirt for a wife who likes being the middle spoon. Also as a suggestive play on spooning. It is able to be passed off as cuddles or whatever you like, but it is a design that would open conversation. “The middle spoon? What does that mean?”
Back in the 90’s I designed a line of shirts called “Shirts to get you laid” and I had some humorous spooning-related designs. I wish I still had all my original art from those shirts. Some could easily be recycled to be Vixen Games designs.
Hotwife, Swinger, Poly, or any other type of monogamish flag you may fly… This T-shirt can be your jam if you like being the middle spoon.
The “I will be the middle spoon” design can be purchased as a T-shirt, hat, sticker, or phone case HERE – I will be the middle spoon by Vixen Games.