It’s not cheating if my husband watches

We who play Vixen Games have pretty much all heard the saying “It’s not cheating if my husband watches, and most of us have probably said it at one time or another. Either seriously or in jest we’ve most likely said It’s not cheating if my husband watches both around other people with monogamish playstyles and people who are as vanilla as it can get.

We have also most likely seen the saying on T-shirts, drinkwear, underwear, and bumper stickers.

So I figured I must join the crowd and make a It’s not cheating if my husband watches shirt design. I couldn’t just have generic words though. The saying is too commonly used for that. Turns it into a basic B-type shirt. Had to have a graphic. I like women with attitude. Moxie. Oh yeah… so that is what I went for.

Here is my It’s not cheating if my husband watches T-shirt design.

You can this T-shirt HERE – It’s not cheating if my husband watches Relaxed Fit T-Shirt.
A shirt for a girl with moxie.

So, why is this saying so popular with Vixens, hotwives, swingers, etc? As a shirt, it is a bit flirty but has humor attached. It gets the point across. That’s one reason.
Another is because so many people consider sex outside of a monogamous 1 + 1 type scenario cheating no matter what.
Even in the case of hotwifing with a cuckold husband in a fashion that resembles cheating it actually isn’t if the two primary partners agree to it and maintain knowledge of it within the parameters they established in their relationship.
In this case, a scenario where the husband is watching, how could it ever be cheating when all people are agreeing?

If you are a Vixen the phrase “It’s not cheating if my husband watches” can’t be any truer. I’d even say that the husband is more often than not experiencing as much pleasure as his vixen wife, but just in a different way. Consent has been given. Consent is the key to all of this.

Cheating is to deceive, act dishonestly, or go behind a partner’s back. Cheating is to disregard the boundaries of your relationship.
Cheating is not being honest, open, and staying within the boundaries of your relationship.
When a person cheats in a relationship in big or small ways they wish to hide their actions. They will often sneak and omit things. They are not holding their partner in high regard.
A woman who swings having a good time with her husband watching is not hiding anything. She may possibly even be showing off for her husband a bit. A vixen having sex with someone in front of her husband is almost certainly going to be showing off a bit. She will be doing the opposite of sneaking and hiding. She wants him to see and know because it turns him on. When a Vixen’s husband watches she is having sex with her husband as well even if he is just watching. It is part of their sexual dynamics.

Again, you can this T-shirt HERE – It’s not cheating if my husband watches Relaxed Fit T-Shirt.