This one is a question for the guys… Do you think your Vixen could pull off a start-to-finish sexual adventure right next to you in your bed while you’re sleeping without waking you?
The idea came from somewhere else besides us in a way. A man who has a thing for his wife sneaking in another guy at night, and even sometimes in the morning for sex. She does this when he is, and usually, she is asleep.
He wakes to her getting naughty right next to him in bed.
That’s his extra special tur-on.
It is always a surprise and she finds it fun to set up an enact.
It should be pretty obvious that if you like this idea it should be heavily discussed and agreed upon before ever attempting this bedtime Vixen Game.
Work out every tiny detail and set your rules and limits.
Who, how, when, etc.
For the guy in this scenario an added thrill is that he never knows when it could happen.
Another added thrill is that they have motion-sensing security cameras set up in their bedroom so all the action is recorded in various angles, and with sound.
What he misses when it starts he gets to go back and see the next day.
Whenever we find new Vixen Games people play we talk about them. Thumbs up, thumbs down type discussions. Some things sound hot, and some not.
This one sounded hot to me. I told my Vixen we should maybe add it to our list of someday-to-do games.
She liked the idea. Then she asked, “But what if you slept through the whole thing?”
I said that wouldn’t be cool, but that it wouldn’t break any rules even though my thing is watching, so I guessed it was alright.
She’s a person that amps things up a notch sometimes and always looks for ways to stress me out, but in a fun way.
Or maybe a better way to say it is that she likes to push the envelope of our rules and stress me in a way she finds fun for her, but still doesn’t make me actually mad. Not always does she care if I have fun. She figures I’ll get that later so it’s all good.
If you are new to Vixen Games and hotwifing in general always make sure you have your rules and boundaries in place. These activities should enhance your relationship, and without good rules things can easily go awry. We have a post on how we set our initial hotwifing rules you can read to get some ideas.
This conversation resulted in her adding to her Hotwife Goals list and deciding that the game was not just sneaking a person in and waking me by having sex with them right next to me in bed, but instead, she wanted to get naughty with me not waking at all during the event.
I said that’d be awfully hard, maybe even impossible, but that just made it become a bit of a challenge-type thing for her.
So now the idea is that we go to bed, I fall asleep, she sneaks in a guy and in and very quietly and without disturbing me have sex right next to me until both are satisfied without waking me at all.
Then the guy sneakily leaves and I know nothing.
I find out either during morning sex or whenever she tells me and there is a video showing it all.
She has put this on her to-do list. It is as yet not a 100% approved hotwife goal for her though.
As mentioned, such games as these need to be heavily discussed and details figured out before moving forward. This is a must when deciding on any type of play scenario.
As of now, we have not done this.
It seems though that she very much wants to someday say “While you’re sleeping ____” and have me be clueless.
She even laid out her plans, which I’ll share with you because they actually seemed almost plausible. I say almost because I am pretty sure I’d wake. If I woke she’d still be having fun and I’d get the surprise sexy time I wanted so I’m all good with her trying to sneak it through my sleep. She’ll fail and we’ll both win.
Her plans are however geared towards her successfully pulling it off.
She said she’d have the guy in the know and kinda on call. Basically, he’s agreed to the scenario and knows it can’t be perfectly scheduled, but is more a situation of having the right night.
The right night would be one where I had little sleep the night before, had one of my doubled-up work days which completely wipe me out, and she’d keep me up a tad beyond when I wanted to get my much-needed rest.
Basically I’m wiped out and crashing hard.
She says because she always runs a white noise type fan when she sleeps it would muffle some sound, but even without that she believes they could be quite enough to not wake me. She says they would just move very little and very slow not to disturb me.
She truly thinks she can pull it off and now wants to do so.
I believe she can’t.
I suppose if we add this to our Vixen Games it’ll be a case of trying repeatedly and failing because I’d wake, but me having fun waking to it and her having fun attempting it.
Maybe if this one becomes a regular game of ours we’ll make a song about it and you can listen to it on our Vixen Games YouTube channel. If she ever gets to say “While you’re sleeping” when I wake there definitely will be a song.
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