Maybe you’re a hotwife, maybe your just thinking about it, and maybe you’ve talked about it and decided it’s best left as a fantasy for now. It’s still fun in any of those situations to point out men you’d be interested in to your husband when out and about. A simple “I’d do him” is all it takes to get his mind going.
If you are just in the fantasy phase that simple “I’d do him” will immediately put most guys who are into the fantasy into visualizing it. It may even get him horny immediately. There are other benefits to pointing out men to your husband you think are attractive and would consider having sex with at this stage of your hotwife journey.
If you are at the point where you haven’t taken the plunge, but probably will, or you’ve decided hotwifing is just a fun fantasy to talk about it is good to get an idea of what type of men your husband thinks of when he is fantasizing as well.
That simple “I’d do him” statement will open up dialogue.
Besides the sexy talk that can come about from this you can discuss what your husband thinks of your choices. You want him to be enthused because you want him wanting to see or know about your adventures. You want him to enjoy thinking about it. If you are picking guys that he’d not be into seeing you with or thinking about you with it makes the fantasy not as good for him.
If you regularly point out the guys you find as possible prospects and get his opinion you will over time find the type of guy that completes his fantasy and also fits within the scope of what you are attracted to.
If ever you decide to take your fantasy to the next level and try it out for real you will have done yourself a favorer because you’ll easily eliminate men from the maybe category that would have been more likely to lead to a less enjoyable experience for all.
It should be noted here that many men simply don’t care about the who, or if they do care it is very little. The guy’s who are more into the watching aspect will be more apt to have particular types they like and dislike in mind as partners for you.
Whether you’re a hotwife, just thinking about it, or use it as playful fantasy saying “I’d do him” or something similar to your husband when you see a guy you’d be interested in is something fun, playful, and sexy no matter what.
It keeps dialog open, and it keeps your husband thinking of you in a sexy way.
It helps fuel the fire.
You can also use these people you point out as fantasy playmates later in bed.
Having a specific individual in mind can make the fantasy more realistic for you both.
If you’re both into the hotwife fantasy, and you like him thinking of you in such a way I’d recommend pointing out men of interest as often as possible.
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