Before we get into “Dogging In America” I feel it is a needed thing to explain what dogging is because a majority of our readers are located in America and dogging isn’t a common practice in either North America or South America.
It’s mostly a European thing.
Mostly doesn’t mean only though.
At it’s most simple core dogging is when people go someplace to have public or semi public sex in secluded areas while others watch and in some cases join in.
It was at one point mostly popular in Great Britain, and with their immediate neighbors. It has spread to almost all of Europe.
It has also morphed into something more than just watching or being watched in a secluded or semi-secluded area for many people.
Group participation at some level is now more common than not.
Also, in the past it was primarily a random-ish situation with people frequenting spots known for the activity and hoping for others to be there.
Nowadays it is more common for logistics to be set up via the internet.
Less surprises, safer, and some selection involved.
A stereotypical scenario would involve a couple driving to a set place, having others be there to watch, and if requested join in with the couple in various capacities.
The less adventurous couples will stick to the wife fondling others or being fondled through the window.
The more adventurous couples will in some cases end up with the wife taking on many men sexually while the husband acts as a guard and director for her. He may also use this time to masterbate.
The majority of couples will fall someplace in-between with their chosen activities.
There aren’t any set rules as to what dogging is or isn’t, or how to go about it.
Since we are all caught up on what dogging is now we can discuss Dogging In America.
First of all, you may be wondering if it even exists in America.
I can say that it does indeed exist in the USA and Canada as a thing.
Is it as popular as in Europe?
Not even close.
Who is dogging in America?
Mostly Hotwives.
That’s why I’m talking about it. It falls withing our sphere a bit.
We can thank the internet for spreading the idea globally because some people enjoy videoing their experiences and sharing them online. We can also thank “content creators” because many thought dogging a great thing to add to their content. It is now an adult niche.
That niche appealed heavily to some Stags, cucks, and men who swing as preferred video entertainment. They shared it with their wives, and the more open minded said “Hmm, sounds kinda cool.”
Obviously that’s an imaginary scenario for the wife’s based on the spread of the game, but I’d assume accurate in many instances. Dogging In America is now a thing.
Since one of our favorite Vixen Games is the ‘My Husband Will Drive‘ or ‘Wanna Ride – Hotwife Taxi Game‘ you can imagine that this sort of thing would be appealing to us. It is.
We haven’t actually done it in the way it’s most often thought of though.
Most people in the USA and Canada haven’t as far as I can gather. I’m not an expert on it though, so maybe I am mistaken.
The American version seems to be (This is our way as well) to find guys (and couples) through swinger websites like SwingLifeStyle.com and LifestyleLounge.com and giving locations and times for the event.
How this seems to be done is by invite or through forums and or event type sections of the sites.
In a forum you already have a interest guaranteed, but no selection process. This is still ok because with dogging the idea is the couple or couples arrive and there is ZERO guarantee of allowing of watchers to get involved. If it does, selection can be at that time.
Also it is common for two or three couples to set this up together instead of it being just one couple as we don’t have a lot of dogging hot spots like they do in Europe, so nobody else except the invited will show.
Forums seem to be the least poular way people go about it though.
All swinger sitess have sections to post parties aand events. This is a more common area to find this set up. The events can be publicly posted to gather interest while still having the details hidden until a person is approved, or it can be a situation of location given only on that day.
These events can also be hidden unless you are in a specific group or get invited to it. That way randoms have no clue it is even happening.
This is how a majority of house parties seem to be set up in my area. Closed groups, vetted people.
Lastly we have strictly invite.
For pretty obvious reasons this is the best way to go.
If you as a couple are into this you can invite whoever you like. Explain what is going on, limits, expectations, etc.
Not that we have done this exactly *wink* but one scenario that works is to invite a bunch of guys plus any couples you know may be into it as a voyeuristic thing, and invite a special someone you definitely will play with to guarantee a good show.
This gives you the option of doing much more, but you as a couple are sure to have fun with your chosen third as well.
If you are doing this as a solo couple adventure and inviting multiple men to a semi- secluded area, this specially invited man you will be playing with adds safety as well. Two men instead of one as security.
Safety… note semi-secluded has been said. Going to a completely secluded area where people you don’t know will be meeting you is just straight up dangerous.
Caution is advised.
Some good ideas for keeping it safe would be not just having that second especially invited guy along, or having another couple do it at the same time, but also when approving people or sending invites to target people with certs from people you know or target people who frequent clubs you go to if you are members of a club.
Known entities who hang out with other known entities are safest. Rando are anything. Serial killer at worst, just annoying pushy people at best when we are talking about the bad apples that could attend.
Be safe, use a dash cam, make sure the list of all possible participants can be seen by the other participants (like with invite parties) and make sure a friend knows where you are going and at what time.
It sucks, but the world isn’t safe and people are not all cool.
Legalities… Now is where I say you should only do this on private property that you own or that you have been given permission by the owner to use for the purpose of dogging.
Dogging In America has one thing in common with Dogging in Europe. The law frowns on people running around having sex in public areas. Depending on your state or province the various offenses you could be charged with are going to be different. Some are severe.
If you decide to try dogging in America and the semi-public place you choose is not on property you own or you have permission to use for your games you can end up in a huge heap of trouble.
Even if it is land you own or private property you have permission to use it can lead to a huge heap of problems if the area chosen can be viewed from a public area or an adjacent property.
Look up your state and county laws if you are in the USA and considering dogging before doing it.
If you are a guy or gal who loves the adult dogging content niche going around on the hub and on OF, I have most likely ruined it some with the realities of doing it compared to the ease of fantasy land. Location, safety, legalities, participant selection… so much work!
Reality can be a pain.
So… my parting advice on this topic is stay safe, don’t break laws, and have fun with it if you’re into it.
Dogging in America is on the rise.
What I hope is that some membership required type clubs and other venues which are friendly towards nonmonogamous and monogamish people will open up areas if they are located in areas that guarantee discrete play.
As memberships are required it would ensure that all people involved were allowed there, and they’d all be known individuals as the club/venue has all their info.
It would work similar to a key membership in a gym, but only for designated areas on the land.
It would be a perk for members, or they could even have an added fee required to be able to use the areas.
Just an idea, and maybe some people are already doing this.
I know of a camp grounds that works that way.
Definitely not the norm though. Dogging may be on the rise, but it is still a very tiny segment of society that is into it.
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