We prefer to say “men rather than use the term “bull” when it comes to our Vixen Games, but most people online use the term bull when they are talking about the men hotwives play with.
Thankfully this isn’t the case off the internet, and men or man is what is usually said by most.
If you are a man who is not experienced with hotwives, but would like to be I’d suggest checking out our NO BULL piece.
Since we are on the internet right now I’m going to say Bull while talking about what it is to be in the Bull Hunting Vixens Club.
With Stags and Vixens it is pretty common for the Stag to do the bull hunting or for the Stag and Vixen to do it together.
More often than not it is the Stag that does a majority of the online work with the Vixen giving a thumbs up or down, and then they work as a team when out and about in the vanilla world or at special venues catering to such things. Why that is the norm I really can’t say, but it usually is.
Many Vixens however like to do a bit of the hunting on their own.
If the Vixen hunts online it is basically the same as when the Stag does so, but in reverse. She finds interesting men via apps and the like, she shows her Stag, she gets a thumbs up or down, then some messaging ensues.
Some Bull Hunting Vixens also like to hunt in the wild. They like to flirt and be flirted with, and if the prospective male seems a good bet she’ll make a play.
Since she is not a single gal, nor is she a hotwife married to a cuckold, she most likely has a lot of little boundaries to deal with that make this part interesting. Most Stags and Vixens have rules and boundaries they frame their lifestyle with to make sure that their lifestyle is a net positive rather than a negative in their relationship. One very common and wise rule is to keep your vanilla and naughty life completely separate. I suggest that rule. Not having it can lead to a lot of unwanted drama and problems.
Rules in place, it’s a stranger, never met before, he’s hot, he is obviously interested… If she just gives her number she could end up with a creepy stalker, if she gives her husband’s number she must explain more than she maybe wants to at that time.
If she is a bull hunting vixen that hunts in the wild it is best if she has a special number to give out. A couple who is very active in the Vixen and Stag lifestyle should have a third phone that they share just for their hotwifing and swinging lifestyle.
The exception would be obviously if you are an out and proud couple, or if you simply don’t care.
Such extra measures aren’t really needed if you only rarely play these games.
With all boundaries intact and precautions taken, she gets to have fun flirting and gets to pick herself out some beautiful bulls.
It all leads to the same place.
Or does it?
Hunting in the wild brings men who aren’t familiar with the lifestyle.
Bull hunting Vixens can end up with over enthusiastic, but very nervous men on their hands.
Bull hunting Vixens also run the risk of accidentally bringing a guy who thinks he is supposed to act like a “Bull” on the hub and she is a submissive hotwife meant to be used.
They may even make the mistake of attempting to treat the Vixen’s stag like a cuck as they’ve seen on the hub.
The worst ones are the guys who have zero clue about any sort on monogamish or nonmonogamous lifestyles and think the Vixen is fair game to steel away and turn into their monogamous girlfriend.
“I would never share you if I had you.”
Pitfalls aplenty exist for bull hunting Vixens.
Yet, they still love the hunt because if they are huntresses it makes every day a little bit more fun. They always are keeping an eye out, always thinking about it, and therefore always entertained. Life is less boring.
Few hotwives and fewer yet swingers I have ever known really go out of their way to hunt in the vanilla world while going about their day to day business. It’s more of a side thing.
We are vanilla hunters, but we do 90% of it together and when out for a fun evening. We don’t walk down every isle of the grocery store hunting for playmates.
I don’t vanilla hunt without her, and she is more of an opportunistic hunter rather than a seeker.
It still adds fun for her. If she gets a bit of flirting she is always thinking of me too. Would I approve? If not, he’d be a dud anyways.
Here comes two more common pitfalls for bull hunting vixens.
The first is this situation…
Let’s say you find yourself a cool guy. He gets invited to hang out. He is acceptable in the eyes of your Stag. Shenanigans happen. Maybe they happen many times and he becomes a regular. He’s cool, but he gets clingy.
Mr. Vanilla doesn’t want the Vixen playing with others. He gets jealous. Drama bombs galore!
My advice is that if you even start to sense it going that way you should kick dude to the door immediately as it can turn ugly.
Here’s the second one I needed to mention…
The guy has a big mouth.
Being invited in as a third with someone’s wife or being her sex partner in general without it being cheating is an unusual and exciting situation for a guy from the vanilla world. He feels he is living out one of his porn fantasies from the hub. He wants to tell his friends. His friends want to tell theirs.
Picture a snowball rolling down a hill gathering up more snow every few seconds.
That is how quickly the information can spread.
So, if you are a Hotwife of any sort and you are really worried about how people view you, and you want it a total secret because of shame or something else, just don’t risk it.
If you vanilla hunt you will eventually have this happen more likely than not. Find your bulls online via the specialized websites for swingers such as SwingLifeStyle.com and LifestyleLounge.com or through clubs.
I have only scratched the surface of problems that can arise when a person seeks men for hotwifing in the vanilla world. There are a ton more.
It may make you wonder if it’s worth it.
For bull hunting Vixens it certainly is.
It’s not just because it spices up the day and keeps the hotwife lifestyle on the mind. It isn’t just because she gets to be flirty.
Finding guys in your day to day has advantages too.
Youve met them in their normal state, so few fakes and flakes. You most likely live close enough for quickies and sporadic hookups with little notice and low planning. They’ve met you (The Vixen) in your normal state, so you don’t need to feel you must get extra primped up for a sexual event. They can often easily become regulars and therefore into playing along with your more wild or inventive Vixen Games.
Just as there exist many possible problems for bull hunting Vixens, there are many perks to hunting in the wild.
The image used above in this piece is from a T-shirt. The Huntress. Perfect for Bull Hunting Vixens. A beautiful and surreal Vixen Hotwife with black bull in an art nouveau style on a women’s relaxed fit V neck Tee. You can get it HERE – The Huntress V neck T-shirt via Vixen games designs.