A lot of women who are hotwives are also size queens.
Most aren’t though, and the general consensus is that average to largest is best.
That makes a ton of sense when it comes to biology and desire. If bigger was truly better for most women we’d have much larger members because it’d be bred into us through selection.
Women would be more apt to breed with overly endowed guys and it would result in the penis sizes getting bigger and bigger. That isn’t the case, and when it comes to hotwife play bigger isn’t always better.
So, this is just an opinion piece and I’m tossing it out there because I read a post in a forum from a woman describing her one and only encounter with a huge one after a few years of hotwife activity.
The basic forum thread was asking hotwives about their love of extra huge tools.
Most of the self described size queens were only size queens for play. It was an occasional thing and as an occasional thing they loved it. They didn’t want it as their daily though.
Their reasons for loving it varied. Feeling completely filled, the contrast with their average endowed husbands, the visual show it created, being sore the next day in a good way, feeling extra slutty, and just hitting different spots were some of the reasons cited.
There were also women who didn’t like it at all. It was painful, uncomfortable, or awkward some said.
Women as well as men are differently sized and shaped. I have been with women who were very elastic and you could with patience work a wine bottle inside. I have also been with women who I could barely penetrate because they were so small. The depth varies too. Some women just aren’t deep enough for an eight or nine inch situation to be played out comfortably.
The anatomy of the individual will dictate a lot.
Anyways, back to the forum post.
This was her post about her one and only big one experience.
We go to Vegas twice a year to commemorate a couple special occasions in our past. We take turns spoiling each other with sexy adventures. On this occasion it was my turn to be spoiled. My husband usually hires an attractive male escort to come give me a extra nice massage on our second night. What I didn’t know was that for this time he’d spent a lot of time beforehand finding just the right guy. We rarely ever talked about big cocks being a thing. I am not particular one way or another unless it’s a micro. He thought I’d enjoy trying it though. The man was very attractive, very nice, and gave me one of the best massages I’d ever had in my life before he started spicing it up. When I finally saw his cock I was scared to death. It looked to be a foot long and thicker than my forearm. It was eight inches with a circumference of six. I know this because it was on his profile and I looked at it after. I also found out he was very expensive. He was very good, very attentive, and though it took a while to get used to I had a good time. My husband watched it all and later said it was at that point the hottest thing I’d ever done. Afterwards the man politely left and I felt very good about it. Overall I’d say it was a sexy experience and worth trying, but it wasn’t the best. It would have been better if he’d been a bit smaller. My husband wanted to have sex with me immediately which was probably a good idea because the next morning I was sore and uncomfortable. This happens to me with condoms sometimes, but with the added size it was extra sensitive. I was still feeling the comfortable warmth of having had a few orgasms when my husband entered me and though it was nice I was mentally comparing and I said “I can barely feel it you seem so small after that.” I meant nothing by it, and hadn’t even thought of it as insulting, but my husband took it as a insult. He asked a few things and I tried to sooth him, but he felt bad and it made him go limp. All was fine the next day after he thought about it and even asked if I wanted to do it again. I didn’t. It was fun to try, but I found it less fun than I’d expected and I didn’t like being that sore down there the next day. Bigger isn’t always better.
Her ending is where I got my post title and topic idea. (I asked if it was ok to use as it was in a closed forum)
There were many comments and she did respond to a good amount of them. Many men loved what she said to her husband because they are into cuckolding and some said that is why they like their wives to play with guys bigger than them.
Many other men said that would have made them feel bad as it did her husband. Most thought it funny and no big deal. (See what I did there?)
A few women piped in about how they live for such adventures and like the bigger ones. Bigger isn’t always better, but for a few it seems it is.
I’m on the upper size of average. A bit over supposedly if you go by statistics, but I have been around a lot and seen a lot. Most guys in the lifestyle are right around the same. Some bigger, some smaller. A few are more or less to a larger degree. I don’t worry about it.
I’m glad my Vixen isn’t a size queen. I’d not measure up to that and it would also make finding partners a hellish thing. As vanilla hunters it would really ruin the games because 99% of guys would fall short. (See what I did again there?)
Is she down for the monster sizes? yes. Does she hunt for them? Nope. Variety is the spice of life.
We must end with a shirt as always, so we will end with this cock aficionado shirt because bigger isn’t always better and it’s more about whatever you like. You have your own tastes and that is that.

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