Cindy says she’s into Hotwifing because swinging is hard. Partly anyway.
She enjoys hotwifing and describes herself as more of a Vixen Hotwife than a swinger, but it has a lot to do with desiring a four way connection in swinging and it being a rarity.
So the hotwife life outweighs the swinger life in part because of that. She’s more often Hotwifing because swinging is hard when it comes to everyone connecting.
You may remember a post titled Why I swing (The Vixen) from back in November when we mentioned a project we were working on involving asking women who are involved in the swingers lifestyle why they swing and what they get out of it.
The fruits of our labors have been realized.
You may now look up Vixen Games Why Women Swing and What They Get Out Of It on most music streaming services and hear fourteen fabulous tracks with thirteen being women explaining their reasons for swinging, what they get from it, and in some cases how they got into the swinger lifestyle.
Look it up, and give it a listen on whatever service you use.
We are also putting together lyrics videos for YouTube. They aren’t really lyrics, just responses, but as it’s all to music they serve as lyrics.
This is the second one we have posted here. The first was Swinging as a fun social life with Bev’s answer to the question.
Here is Cindy’s answer made into song with a bit of extra music because her answer was a bit shorter than Bev’s.
This made me wonder about how many women may be Hotwifing because swinging is hard in various ways. That four way connection is definitely elusive and if you are a swinging couple who requires it you may find the play spars.
There can be a variety of other factors which would make a person consider hotwife activities simply easier than swinging. Work schedules and tiredness could effect it. A difference in basic attractiveness between the two people making up a swinging couple. Levels of sex drive. Other things too… these things are often mentioned, but as variables in hotwifing rather than reasons usually. For example a couple may swing a bit, but the man is only good for one go while the woman is good for five. A man may have a lower sex drive than his wife and therefore she plays more. These are situations where swinging meets hotwifing, but usually the woman and man are already into the hotwifing at a more or at an even level with their swinging activities.
They like the dynamic so play the game.
That is the case here with Cindy as well it seems as she says “So I’m more of a hotwife, and I think my husband likes watching, as much as he likes doing, and I think I like it better when he is watching closer anyhow. Couples are fun, but sometimes I like his attention focused only on me.”
That is all hotwife Vixen vibes!
Except she also says “I think” rather than just saying it as a sure thing statement. She would obviously swing more if they could get that four way connection more often. Finding partners suitable for her hotwife experiences are just easier. The idea of being into Hotwifing because swinging is hard in some ways never occurred to me.
In our own games I can say it is definitely easier to pick up singles than couples in a vanilla setting. Couples who fit our criteria plus will go for it are pretty close to impossible to find.
Singles are pretty easy. Both guys and gals can be found and seduced pretty easy when we are in the mood. Vanilla hunting isn’t the norm for most though. Apps/Sites like SDC.com and SwingLifeStyle.com are the usual way people seek others, and on those two sites it is much easier to find couples (for us at least) than singles. LifestyleLounge.com has been better for singles in experience, but it’s a big geographic in why. Even there I’d say couples are easier and we are specifically looking for guys usually.
I’m going to be thinking about and possibly even asking people who are into hotwifing and swinging both about the idea of a person being more into Hotwifing because swinging is hard.
Lastly I want to note that she says in her reply to our question “We are always looking for couples, but they are so hard to find, so It’s hot wife Vixen Games for me!”
That made is feel cool.
This couple has been great supporters of us and our Vixen Games Designs Store as well.
They are a Vixen and Stag couple and they have adopted the term “Vixen Games” for their play because of us. I know because I asked. It’s the little things that bring the smiles sometimes.
So, go check out Vixen Games Why Women Swing and What They Get Out Of It on your fave music streaming services. Listen to them all and hopefully you enjoy the journey.