There are a lot of things that can go a bit off plan when hotwifing. If you are a Vixen hotwife you have most likely experienced eight second bulls. If you are an aspiring hotwife of any sort or just thinking about it you should know that this will happen from time to time.
What is an eight second bull?
It’s basically the same thing as a three pump chump, a minute man, or quick popper.
It’s a guy who barely gets started and it’s over. Premature ejaculation is the official term.
Why do people call them eight second bulls when it comes to hotwife play?
It is pretty simple. A common slang term for a man who has sex with a hotwife besides her husband is a bull. A hotwife who gets on top is therefore riding a bull. Outside of hotwifing there exists the sport of bull riding. In that sport the goal of a bull rider is to stay on a bucking bull for eight seconds to receive a score. The rider is then judged on their performance during those eight seconds. Scores are awarded based on things like their control over the bull and their connection with the animal’s movements.
As a Stag with a Vixen I can say that I score the event similarly, but eight seconds isn’t the mark.
With all the work involved in setting things up, vetting, and the excitement that comes along with a playdate that involves a new man it can be a tad disappointing if the guy ejaculates within the first eight seconds.
It can happen on first penetration, it can happen during oral, and it can even happen during foreplay.
A guy that goes off quickly is rarely able to get it back up again because he usually experiences shame, humiliation, and anxiety afterwards. This is especially true if it happens before penetration. I like to think of those events as dishonorable discharges or beforegasms.
If such a thing happens, don’t be cruel about it. The guy was excited and nervous. Take it as a compliment. Maybe the dude isn’t really a lady’s man and it’s just his way. It was just to much for him. Hopefully he didn’t talk himself up and then fail. That’s as annoying as it gets. If you are a guy who is interested in playing with hotwives check out Wannabe Hotwife Bulls and take it to heart.
If the guy was just cool till that moment though, be nice.
If the guy is a lady’s man take it as an ultra compliment.
From personal experience I’d say around 20% of women I have been with I have had serious issues even getting to an orgasm. With a majority I just cruise along until I feel it is a good time or it has been too long. Maybe 5% make me feel like I could blast easy, and less than a single percent have given me the instant need. I can count those women on one hand.
My point here is that you should take it as a compliment if it’s anybody, but especially if it’s a guy who is super experienced.
Experienced Vixen wives will have experienced Eight Second Bulls a few times. Novices may not have, but you will.
Besides not being mean, there is always the chance they will rise to the occasion after a bit of time. Maybe even instantly if they are younger men.
My refractory period was about three minutes in my twenties. I’m basically a one and done nowadays with an occasional possible second erection after an hour or so.
That sucks for being a Stag btw, but it is what it is.
So… excitement, buildup, tension, it’s time to get down and the guy lasts seconds rather than minutes.
What now?
First, if you liked them otherwise act like it isn’t a big thing and ask if they are good for multiple. If they are you will be fine. Take a break, maybe even play with your husband and have the guy watch if he is into that.
It’s usually not best to immediately try and get the guy to rise to the occasion again. It is less likely to happen and performance anxiety will grow quickly. Give it at least fifteen minutes of non play and then restart.
Second time around is usually much more controlled.
If the guy completely fails is your night isn’t ruined
It shouldn’t be at least. It’s kinda like having plans for a nice night out at a fancy restaurant and then the food isn’t great. Disappointed? Of course you are, but did you enjoy your drinks? Was the ambiance nice? How about the conversation? Did you enjoy seeing each other dressed up a bit? It wans’t perfect, but there are reasons to be thinking “I had a good evening.”
It’s the same here. You got dressed up probably, the lead up was fun, you had some excitement, you have another funny story to add to your adventures list, and you have eachother.
Hopefully your stag didn’t have a dishonorable discharge or beforegasm while watching your foreplay. It is a common thing. Many a Stag is obsessed with their Vixen and her sexuality. It can cause an unwanted explosion. It’s also possible that he (Your stag) didn’t do that, but from what he already witnessed and the anticipation he ends up giving his Vixen a preamy-creamy. I just really wanted to use that slang phrase in this. You get the point though.
If that happens just use your hotwife goddess status and say “Now you get me off.”
It’s his duty and pleasure. It may not be how you imagined the evening going, but just enjoy yourself in a different way.
The “bulls” are always to be considered extras in your life. They aren’t the main course.
Every adventure should be a fun adventure and it’s all about how you look at it. Even adventures with eight second bulls.
I usually leave you with a Vixen games designs T-shirt, but I’m going with a sticker on this one.
You can get this Fly Me To The Moon Hotwife On A Bull Vinyl Sticker at VixenGames.com and stick it on something where it may attract some bulls that hopefully make it past the eight second mark.
If they do turn out to be eight second bulls just remember it is all about the adventure and focus on all the parts of the experience that went well.