Reclaiming after watching your hotwife in action can often be the best part of a Vixen and Stag relationship.
It can also be the most important.
What is reclaiming? For most Stags after watching your Vixen with another, there can be feelings that she has been “shared” or was “taken” by, and maybe even “owned” by a Bull depending on the dynamics of your relationship and play styles. When recaiming in such situations a Stag takes her back and makes her fully his again. Sometimes the reclaiming is a way for the Stag husband to show his “ownership” and assert his dominant position over his hotwife and in some cases assert that position over the bull as well.
The scenario of reclaiming will differ for all couples, but in the end, it almost always has possession of the wife at the heart of the matter for the Stag.
The Stag may be forceful and rough in his reclaiming if he is motivated by dominance and holds a highly dominant position over his Vixen in their lives.
On the other hand, the Stag husband may be gentle and offer up sensual and emotional lovemaking if he is secure and considers his Vixen to be equal in the dominance department or to be the dominant partner. He seeks and needs emotional reconnection in such cases.
Reclaiming can also take the form of non-sexual activities such as cuddling, or even preparing a meal together and eating it in bed while giving each other positive affirmations.
Everyone has different needs, so the act of reclaiming after watching your hotwife can take many forms. It is all about what you as a Stag need to feel that perfect reconnect and what your Vixen needs to feel secure and loved by you.
Some sort of sexual reclaiming is usually the case though.
A Vixen hotwife and a Stag husband are a team. The reclaiming or reconnection needs must be met for both the Vixen and Stag for hotwifing to work.
Problems may arise if those needs aren’t met or if one person’s needs cause the other person to feel put out, obligated, or annoyed.
For example, maybe the hotwife likes to relax for a while after a long play session and bask in the post-sex afterglow, but the Stag feels he must instantly reclaim her sexually.
You end up with a Horny Stag going at it while his Vixen is not enjoying herself fully because she didn’t get her basking time first if we just go with his needs. She may find the sex lackluster or annoying. This could in turn cause the Stag to feel inadequate or angry.
Major failure for both.
Or if the Vixen gets her way the Stag may feel he is unwanted, he’ll feel disconnected because he isn’t reclaiming her. He won’t be happy and that feeling will possibly grow.
Compromise and communication are needed.
Also, it should be noted that nothing in life always goes exactly to plan. There must be exceptions allowed. Maybe one of you becomes slightly ill from the food eaten earlier. Maybe the Bull was extra large and took to long which left the Vixen in a state of sore and tired rather than in an afterglow relaxed state. Maybe the extra guy was just horrible and the hotwife is not feeling “hot” at all, but totally turned off instead. Many things can go wrong.
In such cases, the reclaiming needs to wait.
It’s meant to be a bonding experience for both, and therefore it needs to be pleasurable in some manner for both.
Reclaiming after watching your hotwife is not a required thing if you aren’t into it.
We use the term ourselves, and we do have sex after.
We use the term because it is the most commonly used descriptive term for having sex with each other right after a hotwifing activity though, not because I am “reclaiming” anything or because she feels she needs “reclaimed.”
For us, she has not been “shared” or “taken” by by anyone except in a sexual and physical sense, and certainly hasn’t been “owned” at any time by anyone except me.
At no time does she belong to anyone besides me, and if I felt so I wouldn’t be allowing it to happen in the first place.
In our dynamics, it is required that we feel and hold possession of each other at all times. The sex is our sexual play as a couple.
This is why we always are together, never apart as well. It is an enhancer to our play as a couple.
The mind is the biggest sexual organ. How you think of things, the way you perceive them… that is what dictates how it all plays out and what it means.
Reclaiming after watching your Hotwife is very important to some, and not needed at all by others.
If you need it for physical or emotional reconnection then it must happen. If you don’t need it then it doesn’t need to happen.
Most Stags and Vixens do need it though.
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Also, we just made a Youtube channel where we are putting the little songs and jingles we make for some of our social media accounts.
Here is a song all about reclaiming!