After my little post on the Swingers Lifestyle a couple of days ago, I got some feedback on social media regarding the more profound topic: are hotwives swingers, and are swinging wives hotwives? The jury is out for some, but for others, it is a big yes. That inspired me to do a more simple design. A Vixen Hotwife Swinger Swingset design with three seats that have letters on the seats. M F M, and The text that circles the swing is the three words Vixen, Hotwife, and Swinger.
The design is available on a shirt HERE – Vixen Hotwife Swinger Swingset T-Shirt.
Sometimes simple is best. The reason I put the MFM in this is because of some of what I was talking about in the previously mentioned post. Many who are in the swingers lifestyle don’t play or seek out that third male for threesomes. They are often even annoyed with the idea. Then we have those in the lifestyle who seek the single male for play regularly. It is in that group where we seem to find the women who are in the swinging lifestyle that often identify as Vixens and hotwives.
As to the social media comments, I found another interesting thing that I was not aware of as far as certain people’s thinking. There were a few who mentioned that they would consider themselves such, or do, but don’t mention it, because they either have had a bad experience or fear a bad experience based on what they perceive as a big part of hotwifing. That thing is the idea of a bull. Bulls are portrayed as being very dominant and extremely aggressive online. They are talked about as such. Those who are internet content makers and identify as bulls often push that element as well. That vibe is not something desired in most swinging circles. The solution for these women is to not use the term hotwife or vixen as a label for themselves. This in turn allows them to rarely have to deal with “Bulls” and avoid the assumption they believe some men would have that as a man coming into play they must be aggressive and dominant. I’ll not here that my comments about this were few so the sampling is small.
I will be looking into this avoidance of “bulls” by swingers more.
If you want the Vixen Hotwife Swinger Swingset T-shirt, it is linked above. It is listed along with a ton of other great designs. You can see them HERE – Vixen_Games Teepublic. Something for everyone that is playing Vixen Games or something similar. Serious designs, classy ones, daily wear, funny, naughty, goofy, flirty, fantasy designs, and more.