Added this shirt to our Vixen-Games S-shop and shared it on a few social media accounts.
I immediately got a few comments, and one of them was “I wish my wife would wear a shirt like that, but she is too shy.”
Curiosity made me check the guy’s profile and he had a few pics of his wife looking anything but shy.
Some naughty shots, and even a couple in action with a friend.
Hotwife at home, but shy in public.
Just a horny lil devil that’s a bit shy.
You can also get this design HERE – Just a horny lil devil by Vixen-Games.
The funny thing with that story is that one of the reasons I make a lot of these designs is exactly what the guy was talking about.
This design for example was made specifically to bring a certain type of playful attention. I made it cute, slightly funny, and played off of a shirt theme that has been around for decades.
This is a vanilla people’s shirt. The only difference is I gave her a Vixen head on her choker and added a cock.
Heck, I remember a friend having a shirt with hot stuff on it when we were in high school that said “horny little devil.”
His girlfriend had given it to him as a gift.
His girlfriend was what people refer to as “high maintenance,” so we all often called her princess throughout our school years. Even her family called her that. My friend was a comics collector and his favorites were Richie Rich, Casper, and Hot Stuff. Hot Stuff had a girlfriend who was a fairy named Princess Charma. By the time they’d dated for a year or more, he’d taken to calling her Charma.
None of that has to do with anybody being Just a horny lil devil that’s a bit shy. His Princess Charma was not shy. She was a bossy princess who later became his Queen after a few bumps in the road.
When they were in their early twenties one of their friends *cough cough* introduced them to some libertine behaviors and it caused some jealousy and arguments in both directions. Once they went through that rough patch however they were good as gold and ended up moving across the country to New Orleans, which happened to be one of my favorite cities back in the 90’s. I saw them usually once or twice a year.
I had no clue about what a hotwife was in those days, but in hindsight, I had turned that girl onto a path that led her to be one. They (and I) would have described themselves as being in a semi-open relationship back then. If it was nowadays they’d be labeled as a mostly hotwife couple, and maybe swingers sometimes. They just kinda had sporadic threesomes with mostly men, sometimes women, and Mr Hotstuff liked to finish first with Princess Charma and then kick back and kinda watch, but kinda not. He’d wander off out of the bedroom pretty often. He was still paying attention though, because if silence happened he’d pop right back in. He liked to listen. If there was a round two, three, four, etc. He’d not join.
As an older guy with a lot of experiences behind me and learning about what makes people tick I can look back and see that he got off on the sounds and whatever was happening in his mind from those sounds. I’m a visual person so like to watch. It is my most important sense. His was sound.
I say was because I don’t know them anymore.
I stopped my globetrotting in 2003. I have not seen them since 2002, and lost contact I’d guess around 2005. I’d assume they are still going strong. They doted on each other.
Back to my shirt designs and the topic of a woman who is just a horny lil devil that’s a bit shy.
Let’s focus on the shy.
There are a lot of causes of shyness. Sometimes it is simple genetics or learned behaviors from your environment when young. Overly strict parents, or even overly strict teachers who outlined everything you could — and couldn’t — do as a child, can make for an adult that finds it hard to step outside your comfort zone.
Being bullied as a kid can also lead to being shy as an adult.
Having to experience huge changes as a kid like messy divorces or being moved around can make you shy and less confident as well. This is especially true if you had a parent or other type of guardian that was more self-centered than loving towards you.
Shyness is also often coupled with anxiety. They are both very related, but not exactly the same. The same things and a bunch of other stuff can lead to anxiety. Are you doomed to shyness since these are things that get ingrained in your subconscious?
Can they be conquered?
Yes, they can.
I’m not a therapist, nor a psychologist, and I can’t give anti-shyness help in any way better than others who are experts have, so I’m just going to say that if you want to conquer it, get googling on cures for shyness.
If you are a hotwife married to a Stag then you are most likely way ahead of the game though.
Vixens who are on the shy side slowly, but surely work their way up out of that shyness just from being Vixens usually.
Much of that is due to the Stag’s vision, support, and love of his Vixen. A Stag wants his Vixen empowered. If he didn’t he’d not be a Stag or you a Vixen. It is part of the dynamic.
In general, most hotwives build up confidence from their activities, but all Vixens will. If you aren’t then something is off and you are falling outside of the realm of Stags and Vixens.
I’ve noted that couples who get into swinging and arrive on the scene often have shyness issues as well. They become party or club wallflowers. Those who stick with it usually break out of their shyness shells after a while and it carries over to all aspects of their lives.
Sometimes that shyness is the cause of them not sticking with it though.
I even knew a girl once who used to call her swinging activities her therapy.
It is said by many swingers that swinging will amplify your relationship in every way. Both good and bad aspects.
I have seen swinging turn meek women into powerful women. I’ve also seen that break relationships because the man in the relationship needed to have his wife be meek when not with him. They needed the security of their wife’s meekness, doubts, and dependence.
If you are in a monogamous relationship and considering opening it up in some way you should take that as a warning.
Stags don’t need their Vixens weak though. Stags want their Vixens to know they are their Queens. A newer Vixen though can still be pretty shy. It takes a while. Can she be a horny lil devil and be to shy to play the game? You bet ya, so her Stag is going to be in the position of making the games start quite often. That is ok. Stags love to be involved.
Stags also love their Vixens to be horny lil demons.
If you are a horny lil demon and a bit too shy to act like the Vixen you are, these types of shirts are for you. They will open the door, they will create opportunity.
Put this on and wear it to the store. If you’re a shy Vixen your husband will most likely be flabbergasted and also excited just from you wearing it.
If that is a bit too much at first then wear it out for a drink with your Stag. Do that a few times. You will have him there to keep your anxiety down and his presence will dissuade attention you may be anxious about.
Please take my advice on this with a grain of salt though as I am coming from the perspective of a watcher.
I have neither shyness nor worries about how strangers view me personally.
I can wear anything and say anything to anybody without fear. I have never experienced shyness myself.
I have however helped bring shyness out of many people simply by encouraging them to push the envelope when it comes to their worries.
The most important thing is to push without breaking if you wish to grow.
Keep your comfort levels within your grasp.
Also, know that if you are just a horny lil devil that’s a bit shy… that is fine.
The image shown above of the horny lil devil can be had on shirts, stickers, hats, phone cases, and more HERE – Just a horny lil devil by Vixen-Games.
and, if you really really love this one you can get it as a back printed zippy hoodie with the design on the front smaller HERE – Just A Horny Lil Devil Graphic Double Side Print Zippy Front Hoodie via our Official Vixen Games Designs Store.
If you wish to view all our stuff you can find a post about it HERE – Where to get our Vixen Hotwife shirts.