Psychological validation and reclaiming through oral in hotwifing

A topic of interest and occasional conversation amongst some traditional spouse swap swingers and vanillas alike who run into hotwifing topics online is the oral fixation they encounter with hotwife stories, videos, and memes. The cuck or Stag going down on his wife immediately after she plays no matter if a condom was used or … Read more

How bad does your husband want to watch?

Stag and Vixen dynamics dictate a semi-equal power structure, but when it comes to the bedroom games the Vixen often holds more cards than the Stag. This is true with almost all forms of hotwifing and swinging.If your husband is a watcher you get a few more cards to play with than if he isn’t … Read more

The difference between a Hotwife and a Vixen

It’s a constant thing to get “What’s the difference between a Hotwife and a Vixen?” as a question. We have covered this topic a few times in various ways… for example with our Vixen Definition. Also when we answered the question “What is a stag husband?“ Then again when we discussed The basic benefits of … Read more

Dealing with judgy swingers

Dealing with judgy swingers is something few Stags and Vixens wish to do.Many Stags and Vixens walk a fine line between what others view as the swinger lifestyle and Hotwives and Cuckoldry. They end up dealing with a lot of swingers who are ignorant about the dynamic. Oddly many swingers are more ignorant about Stags and … Read more