The Vixen and Stag dynamic explored
We are regularly getting Vixen definition questions on our various social media accounts and we thought it’d be a good idea to make a sharable image people can pass around. She’s a teacher of sorts, the type you’d find at a large nonmonogamy event maybe, but she’s teaching and answering your basic Vixen definition questions … Read more
This is something many in the lifestyle must deal with. Wannabe hotwife bulls are usually guys who have watched too much triple X media and think what they see is real. They get into the hotwife idea and want to be what the videos they watch have shown as a “Bull.” 90% of the time … Read more
Many swingers use swinging as a fun social life activity.You may remember a post titled Why I swing (The Vixen) from back in November when we mentioned a project we were working on involving asking women who are involved in the swingers lifestyle why they swing and what they get out of it.The fruits of … Read more
Before we get into “Dogging In America” I feel it is a needed thing to explain what dogging is because a majority of our readers are located in America and dogging isn’t a common practice in either North America or South America.It’s mostly a European thing.Mostly doesn’t mean only though. At it’s most simple core … Read more
Stag and Vixen dynamics dictate a semi-equal power structure, but when it comes to the bedroom games the Vixen often holds more cards than the Stag. This is true with almost all forms of hotwifing and swinging.If your husband is a watcher you get a few more cards to play with than if he isn’t … Read more
We personally don’t call our playmates “lovers, but we are going with that for this little bit on meeting prospective lovers for a Vixen Hotwife because many other people do. We aren’t talking about how to find prospective playmates here. We have done that before, and will again as it’s an endless topic that many … Read more
Maybe you’re a hotwife, maybe your just thinking about it, and maybe you’ve talked about it and decided it’s best left as a fantasy for now. It’s still fun in any of those situations to point out men you’d be interested in to your husband when out and about. A simple “I’d do him” is … Read more