The Vixen and Stag dynamic explored
Most people into hotwifing try and keep it on the downlow. The same for many other forms of nonmonogamy. Society is filled with judgment and prejudice. Being exposed can cause both social and financial problems depending on the situation, but some people cross lines and either slightly or fully embrace their lifestyle choices without fear, … Read more
I’ve been to a lot of clubs over the years. One of the things that has always caught my attention in a non sexual way is the use of liquid courage in swinging.It amazes me how many people need alcohol to cut loose and have fun. It’s as if alcohol is the key that unlocks … Read more
Many swingers use swinging as a fun social life activity.You may remember a post titled Why I swing (The Vixen) from back in November when we mentioned a project we were working on involving asking women who are involved in the swingers lifestyle why they swing and what they get out of it.The fruits of … Read more
Before I get into organizing a hotel key party I’m going to have to tell you that the key parties that are so heavily associated with the swinger’s lifestyle of yesteryear are the stuff of myth rather than true swinger history. I’d guess they existed in some very small way, but there isn’t any actual … Read more
It doesn’t matter whether you have decided you want to try the swinging lifestyle out or be a hotwife. You will most likely end up on a swinger lifestyle site if you do either eventually. You will be new to it, learning how to navigate it, and you’ll most likely be picky about first meetups … Read more
Dealing with judgy swingers is something few Stags and Vixens wish to do.Many Stags and Vixens walk a fine line between what others view as the swinger lifestyle and Hotwives and Cuckoldry. They end up dealing with a lot of swingers who are ignorant about the dynamic. Oddly many swingers are more ignorant about Stags and … Read more
I ran across a video on YouTube titled The Ten Rules For Swingers which really should have been more like “discussing ten common new swinger rules, but nonetheless, it caught my eye so I clicked play and watched it. The video is a couple (Matt and Bianca) from Club Sapphire sitting on a couch and … Read more